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Porn Star Says Men Not Doing This In The Bedroom Is An Instant Turn Off

Author Dave & Chuck the Freak and Cort Freeman
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What does a porn star say men do in the bedroom that’s an instant turn off for women? Actually, it’s what they aren’t doing that’s the problem.

Look, nobody wants to be bad in bed. Unfortunately, it can sometimes be out of your control. However, sometimes there are simple things you can do to make yourself a better lover and not provide your partner with an instant turn off.

Porn Star Says Men Not Doing This Is An Instant Turn Off

Turning your partner on isn’t all about the motion of the ocean nor the size of the boat. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure those factors definitely help. Sometimes, a little attention can go a long way. You don’t even have to be Casanova or the most talented person in the sheets to accomplish this. It just requires a little effort to avoid this instant turn off.

According to porn star Hayley Davies–not to be confused with Hailey Welch–men not engaging in foreplay before doing the deed is an instant turn off for women, per The New York Post. She says that it’s a mood killing mistake and that women are wired to enjoy the build-up prior to sex. If you skip that step you believe to be tiny, you’re actually eliminating a huge part of the fun! Taking that little bit of extra time and effort clearly goes a long way. Plus, what’s the rush?

According to The New York Post, Davies said, “Women need to be teased. We need foreplay. You’d be surprised how many, even more experienced men, just put it straight in!” That doesn’t sound pleasant. You’ve got to heat up the oven before cooking your meal, fellas! However, simply doing the bare minimum doesn’t appear to be enough. Davies advised, “You need to really take your time. Kiss the whole body, caress the inner thigh, soft touches, grabbing in the right places. You just really need to get them begging for it,” via The New York Post. That doesn’t sound too bad, right! That would make you sound pretty cool. Additionally, if word gets out that you’re a generous lover you might attract more positive attention for yourself, and potentially new partners. What you really don’t want to get out is that you just jumped on in. It sounds like that is not what women are looking for.

So, the next time you have an opportunity to woo a partner, don’t rush through it! Take your time!

Cort Freeman was born and raised in Metro Detroit. He was named Clarkston High School 2009 Class Clown 13 years after graduating. Totally normal thing to happen. That’s thanks to his time spent as an Intern at Comedy Central and Social Media Correspondent for The Colbert Report. Cort has done comedy across the country, both standing up and sitting down. When he’s not trying to make you laugh on-air and online, he’s probably at home enjoying his favorite shows like Seinfeld, South Park, and The Office. He’s also totally uncomfortable writing about himself in the third person. Cort enjoys writing about comedy, food, sports, and entertainment. So, basically anything and everything.

5 Foods To Put You In The Mood

What are the best foods to put you in the mood? Aphrodisiacs are a food, drink, or drug that stimulates sexual desire. That’s right. There are some foods out there that can get you horny.

Looking for some foods to put you in the mood? Then you have to check out these tasty treats! See more below!

What Foods To Put You In The Mood?

An aphrodisiac isn’t just a food that you enjoy and makes you happy. No, aphrodisiacs have some sort of science going on that chemically gets your hormones going and makes you want some sweet lovin’.

Kids often need to be enticed or tricked into eating their vegetables. They can be bribed with TV time, video games, or dessert. Whatever works! Well, it turns out there are more advantages to eating your vegetables than just eating healthy.

Many vegetables and fruits are actually aphrodisiacs. Yes, fruits and veggies are among foods that can get you in the mood. Majority of the items on the list are actually healthy items, so there are tons of benefits going on here! If you’re looking to set the scene for a romantic meal, you can have foods to put you in the mood on the menu. It’s not all about the candlelight and soft music.

There are many more than just 5 foods to put you in the mood. There’s a long list of delicious treats that are considered aphrodisiacs. However, since we decided to save you some time and only discuss 5 examples in greater detail, that means some foods to put you in the mood are being left out. That means you won’t read about artichokes, spicy chili peppers, or watermelon below. However, all of those can get you ready for love, according to AllinaHealth.org. Check out the list of 5 foods to put you in the mood below!

  • Chocolate

    Chocolate is probably the first aphrodisiac that comes to mind for most people. Not only is it a great gift for your significant other on Valentine’s Day, it also has the power to get you in the mood! According to Simply Chocolate, chocolate contains two chemicals that are linked to arousal: tryptophan and phenylethylamine. So, if you’re looking to set the mood you best find some chocolates. You can have many purposes with it in the bedroom. Wink wink.

  • Oysters

    Oysters are not the sexiest food. They are disgusting looking and are pretty difficult to eat. It can be difficult to look attractive while eating oysters. However, it’s probably worth it! According to MedicalNewsToday, they contain zinc and other nutrients that may support sexual performance. Is there something about all that slurping that gets people going?

  • Asparagus

    Asparagus is probably most famous for making your pee smell. However, it’s also known as an aphrodisiac. According to PETA UK, asparagus is high in Vitamin E which increases blood and oxygen flow to the genitals. It also contains potassium which is important for sex-hormone production. They say to get the best effect, eat the vegetable 3 days in a row. Wow, your pee will be smelling for a while!

  • Figs

    You likely didn’t know figs are an aphrodisiac. Many people aren’t aware of its secret power. However, the ancient Greeks had it right and understood back then what figs were capable of. Now, it’s all backed up by modern science. It turns out figs are filled with minerals like iron that strengthen fertility for men and women, per Kosterina. So, if you’re trying to have a baby you should try to load up on some figs!

  • Strawberries

    Strawberries are famous for being a bit of a sexual treat. There’s something about feeding your partner a chocolate covered strawberry that can really get the mood going. Even just seeing one it’s like, “Aw yah! It’s on!” However, it’s not just a sexual activity–they’re the real deal! Strawberries are another example of an aphrodisiac. According to Allina Health, they contain compounds like capsaicin and antioxidants. They also can enhance bodily sensations and blood flow.

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